I was recently watching a training video about Collaborative & Proactive Solutions, an approach to identifying the problems that cause concerning behaviors in kids and teens. The presenter of the training, Dr. Ross Greene, made an interesting observation about how undesirable behaviors in teens tend to develop and the role caregivers play in that development. To best explain this observation, Dr. Greene identified two types of kids - the lucky ones and the unlucky ones.
Each year, it seems increasingly obvious when a holiday is approaching. Stores are filled with decorations, advertisements pop up everywhere, and social media posts flood your feed, reminding you of who you must celebrate and buy gifts for next. While many enjoy celebrating these holidays, it’s important to remember that not everyone has positive associations or celebrates them.
Have you ever heard of Relationship Obsessive Compulsive Disorder? Admittedly, I didn’t know much beyond what I could surmise from its name until I read Marriage and Family Therapist Sheva Rajaee’s book, “Relationship OCD - A CBT Guide to Move Beyond Obsessive Doubt, Anxiety & Fear of Commitment in Romantic Relationships”. Right off the bat, I have to acknowledge that Relationship Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (rOCD) isn’t formally recognized by the DSM (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), but the more I learn about it, the more I recognize it in my work with clients and the culture at large (ahem, the recent season of Love is Blind 👀).
